Hiatus

Welcome back to Me! It turns out I've been on a hiatus. Not somewhere getting zen with nature or a hiatus from being single. Just a hiatus from my blog. The big year I had envisioned for myself has had its ups and downs. I've decided to get back on track. Call it Fall Cleaning if you will! I'm going to tackle my blog and everything else on my to do list.

No more pushing and pulling myself to fit the needs of others. Nope. This is my time. For my goals and dreams. My own adventures. It's time to get a little selfish and be a lot of Single in the City!

~~For all of my past, present and future gents:

If you feel that you bear any resemblance to the guys in my blog, it's because you do! Thanks for sparking my interest and my creativity.~~

Till next time

Welcome to MY dating world!

If you're young and single, you know what it's like to date in the city.  I love Toronto.  I've called Toronto my home for nearly a decade.  I love that there's so much to do in every pocket of the city.  I've moved a total of 7 times while living here and every neighbourhood has something new to offer.  It's hard to pinpoint a favourite.  I feel the same way about the men that have been in my life.

As I write this, I realize that the prowl that singledom brings is just like searching for a new apartment.  Once your bored or you need a new view from your bedroom window, you start the search again.  You feel like you need something shiny and new or at least a fresh coat of paint.  I've had some interesting years on the dating scene.  Some being filled with little flings and others being in committed long term relationships.  None of them really filled what I thought my needs were.  They each had something to offer, but not quite enough of what I really needed at the time. 

It isn't until you can narrow down your search and pinpoint the neighbourhood of your dreams. that you can decide where you really want to put down roots.  Over time, our lists get longer and our needs are more specific.  That right there is the problem.  It's way too hard to find that perfect man.  He's not posted on ViewIt, like the apartment down the street. 

Till next time